The Nerve

Not much has pissed me off lately but as luck would have it, my streak of no one pissing me off was broken last night.

I noticed that for a few days I hadn't heard anything from a friend on Facebook or seen any status updates. I saw that she commented on a mutual friend's status so I clicked her name and soon realized that she's removed me from her friend's list. I sent her and her husband (who is still on my friend's list) messages asking what was going on. I checked my hotmail email a few minutes later and found this:

Im going to try to explain this as humbly as I can... I know I dont have too but I will

A status you wrote last week really really hit me the wrong way and I felt I had no choice but to remove me from your friend list as a favor to you


I dont care for Christmas.
I will never put up a tree again.
Yes there are lights in my yard but look close.
They are behind my flag which when all are lit up the lights are red white and blue
Im trying to raise awareness that there are many who are not at home with their loved ones
Jesus gave instructions on what to do to remember him Its plain as the paper its typed on or written on back then....trust me it was not stick his birthday on a pagan holiday as the roman catholic church did and celebrate it

I do acknowledge all of Gods ordained Holy Days and Hanukkah scripture says Jesus was in the temple for that feast which was known then by the feast of dedication
As I said.....I know people dont understand I dont expect them too it took me 30 years of studying for me to grasp it and now that I have I dont understand why it took so long other than I needed the experiences to grow

Thankfully my husband xxxxx shares the same belief as I do along with xxxx. My mom and xxxxxxx understand the whys but they choose to still put up a tree and thats their choice God did give us freewill

Because of my belief that most defiantly dubs me as scrooge of all scrooges


Next my facebook page was created in 06 yes way back then before it was cool because of my activity with the patriot guard

I created it to keep up with a marine from SC who had lost both legs from an IED explosion I was able to have access to his family if I needed too. Facebook has played a very important and active role in my position with the patriot guard I never meant to connect with the community or my work place it just happened.
Even though I have family, friends in the community, and those I work with on my profile the majority of my friends ARE patriot guard riders. Its something we take VERY SERIOUSLY.

I have stood at more grave sides in one year than most people would do in 5 life times I have held mothers in my arms who have bent double in grief and have had fathers weep tears on to my neck
I dont like it when my news feed and status updates are polluted with friggn games like the number game and I was very verbal about it.....that bombardment may have caused me to miss something important like a link submitted by one of the other patriot guard members to a facebook group supporting a wounded hero.

So because I do take things very seriously

I felt I was doing you a favor. I gave you one less scrooge and idiot to contend with.

I want you to succeed.....I want you to be happy I really really do.

But I really really really take my beliefs, faith and my mission with the patriot guard very very serious.

Nothing will change that fact

If you can understand and respect the whys I dont mind you being on my friends list but that status really did bother me

Its way past my bed time Ive gotta work in the morning EARLY.

Does she realize what a retard she sounds like? The status that she's talking about really had nothing at all to do with her. As a matter of fact, it had nothing to do with anyone on my Facebook friends but she must have been feeling guilty about something since she thought it was about her.

And to put this all in perspective: even her husband thinks she's nuts! I got a message back from him this afternoon saying that he didn't know that she'd de-friended me so I copied and pasted the above email into a message to him. He agreed with me that she over reacted and took my side totally. I'm sure that's going to equal an affair to her but oh well. I don't want him. I love my Heath. :p

*names have been changed to protect the innocent from what their retarded family member has embarrassed them with.

Don't be hating.....

I hate to sound like the people that I talk about but I hate when someone posts something in their status on FB and you KNOW that they're talking about you. This happened to me today and even though she denied it, I still know that she was talking about me. Let's be adults. If you've got something to say, say it to me....not to all of your other friends disguised as a generic status update.

See the thing is, and I know this is going to make me sound conceited, but I'm really not, I've lost 59 pounds since July. I lost them though I've worked my ass off. They didn't just start falling off. I've really changed my eating habits and I've exercised my butt off. I'm willing to bet that I've walked about 250 miles since I started in July. Because people are lazy and jealous, they'd rather talk about me behind my back instead of making it happen for themselves. Don't be so bored in your own life that you have to resort to talking about the people who are making it happen, okay?

And it's always going to come back and bite you in the ass. If I don't see it or hear it, I've got enough drama mamas in my life that they'll tell me what's going on.